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charliehall
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baltashchis,

You make a great point about having a rav. A rav is not just someone you ask shilah’s about kashrut! When I was dating I consulted frequently with my rav. My wife and I met on frumster.com with no shadchan, but between the time we connected and the time we met in person we each talked with the others’ rabbis. I would think that a frum person who doesn’t have a decent relationship with at least one rabbi would not be all that frum.