Very good advice, based on her own admission. (she’s looking for someone just like him, yet not him?”)
Sounds like a commitment problem. I suffered from that too (after coming home from my first date with who was to become Mrs. BP). Except that I was 21, so my father said, nu.. whats the problem? ANd when I said “I don’t know” he said, “so apparently there’s no problem! I’ll call the shadchan to set up the next date” (Thanks, TA!)
Of course, in her 30’s that will never fly, so she needs to see a professional, so she is convinced that the advice she is getting is sound.