” At 33 years old, if this girls has some hang up about some family member or some other stupidity she SHOULD seek counseling. ”
I didn’t miss the point at all. We just have different points. I am just trying to say [based on what i know from the little info] that it is not appropriate for YOU or any other person who does not have a close kesher with the girl to suggest that she seek counseling unless she ASKS you for YOUR opinion.
I am not trying to play devils advocate but I hate when ppl on the outside judge and give suggestions without knowing everything.