To Tzippi:
where’s the menschlichkeit?
It’s not a matter of menschlichkeit, I would argue that amongst people making demands in shidduchim there rarely is any. All I’m saying is that melechalmaklo’s points make more sense directed at girls than guys. You would think that if the girls are having such a hard time, they would be less picky and stop expecting every tiny detail about the guy to be perfect.