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mom12
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O.K. Here’s an idea..which I use ALL the time, I ask for one ref. that knows boy and one ref that knows family..when I call this ref. I ask them if they can give me someone else that might be able to give me info as well..this is not coming from the boy/girl/parents . so if the next one says I’m not that friendly with this boy or girl its even better, cuz friends will always give the best info. whereas an ‘outsider’ will honestly say if they are friendly, angry etc…