As far as $, did that person have so much money to give away?
As far as having someone living in there home- my sister had a girl living by her because she had no one else. It all worked fine until this girl really started misbehaving and setting a bad example for her own kids.
She tried everything, and I mean everything, to help her. My sister doesn’t give up so quick. She ran around to therapists and tried to approach with good and bad, but after months of trying nothing worked.
Her own home and kids were terribly affected and she had no choice but to send this girl away.
I don’t know your situation but sometimes one has to do what is good for their family and help other pple in different ways.
I really feel for you that you feel so helpless but maybe you’re not affiliated with the right people?