If I were that girl, I would run as fast as I can away from that shidduch. It’s hard enough for many girls when the shviger is a normal person. This one sounds like the one who drayed me a kup for a half hour IRRELEVANTLY grilling me about a wonderful girl (her family, her extended family, her extended FAMILY’S extended family) in my community (I was a reference for her), only to tell me after mamesh wasting my time that she is not interested because she hears the girl is short, and she doesn’t want short grandchildren!
This can only happen when we allow it to. That woman should have been directed to a shrink to get her HEAD analyzed, not the girl’s handwriting!