beautifully said. i was listening to a shmuz by rabbi shaifer and he said what i think more people should hear…that the idea of your bashert isnt findint someone absolutely perfect. its not that you find 2 people so alike that it just seems to fit. aht a bashert is is the person who perfectly complements you. a person who has maalos to match your chesronos…and that way the couple could constantly work to better themselves.
(thats not to say you should take a girl with the biggest maalos and pair her with the worlds biggest chesaron…but you get the point)