The LAST thing I want is to cause these girls
The second to last thing I want I want is to pity these girls.
What i WANT is to help these girls get MARRIED
These girls need to realize it is NOT their fault that they are single. They have done EVERYTHING they need to do.
They have davened
They have done chesed
They have gone to the proper schools
They have done segulos (whatever)
ENOUGH – they have done Enough,
and yet it doesn’t help
STOP with the FALSE hope.
They need to stop beating themselves up. Stop focusing inward, instead band together focus outward and DEMAND the necessary changes be made – then they will ALL get married.
These girls are the ONLY ones NOT at fault for causing the tragic problem