AZ, this is the last response I plan to make (bli neder) regarding the age issue. A girl who is 23 does NOT belong with a guy who is 8 years older, most of the time. So to tell her that at age 23 she should date guys as if she were four years older, is not only ludicrous, but poor judgment. Most 23 year old girls would be inappropriate for a man of 30 or more, while a 27 year old girl, would probably do VERY well with a guy that age. So unless I seriously misread what you wrote (it could happen), or YOU seriously miswrote, I could not disagree with you more.
