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aries2756:

A pamphlet on how to take rejection????? What else are we gonna do for my generation, have a robot that will literally spoon feed them??? A rejection is a sign of maturity on both sides. The boy/girl rejecting is showing her independence (if it truly is the single doing the rejection and not the parent) and the one getting the rejection is learning from a lesson in life that the world is not full of roses.

We might want to tell the singles that they will get rejected but hearing a “No” answer to a date is part of the dating life and experience.

Stop sheltering these singles! They will eventually have to grow up and mature and this will be one of the many rejections in life (dating, jobs, opportunities, etc.) that will come their way.

If they can’t handle a rejection than how do we expect them to handle other disappointments and hard decisions after they get married?