aries2756:
“usually we are not talking to the kids, we are talking to the parents!!!!”
Two points:
1) Shouldn’t the singles be involved? It is THEIR life after all, not the parents. Which then leads me right back to my previous post (about the maturity and hand-holding of the singles by their parents).
2) If the parents can’t take the someone rejecting their kid for a date (without the kids even knowing about it) do you really think a pamphlet is the answer? I think that there is a larger underlying problem which pamphlets and guides will definitely not help.
On a side note, I totally agree with you in regards to your response to AZ regarding being paid only after the deed (marriage) is done.