I hear you, pascha. It’s a tough position for you to be in…
However, I think having a rav on board for you is just as, if not more, important, than having your friend speak with one. Sometimes when empathizing with one’s hurt, pain, confusion, it’s easy to become disillusioned – especially when some of her questions may involve core emunah issues – and I think that it would be beneficial for you to make sure you have someone behind you. She doesn’t and shouldn’t need to know about it, but you shouldn’t go about this alone, even if you feel you have been so far and you’re fine…and since it’s clearer and easier to absorb answers from a person than from an anonymous website…
Volvie – I agree…I was just providing the technical answer before delving into the main issue, but thank you for clarifying…