SJS –
The differnce between the tznius issue and the example you picked (which, by the way, is most unbecoming of a CR member) is that tznuis, may be a private issue, but it is largly practiced in public, so I do have the right to my opinion as your choices have a direct impact on me / my family.
The example you chose is presumably done in private and really is not open for discussion.
But, really, that’s the example you use to illustrate a point? Got news for you.. its not just married folks here in the CR. Please reconsider next time.