BP Totty, I picked that example because while it is technically a men’s issue, it does ultimately affect women. Its an issue that affects boys from around Bar Mitzvah and upwards. It doesn’t start nor end with marriage, but does affect marriages. So it may not be as “visible” but it still impacts many, many people. I just thought this was an example that men would connect to.
Ultimate the “its practiced in public” line is one I hate. I’m not accusing you of this, but I think society has denegrated itself towards “what not nice we don’t show” but still allows the “whats not nice” – meaning things like tax fraud/evasion and the like. Just because you don’t see it directly doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect you.