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lets be very honest. most of us want to be happy with ourselves. and since no one can prove that “his” issue is the what that has much significance the typicsl response is defensiveness. “why cant you stop talking during davening?”response its more important to be honest in business.(in other words myob) whether the response is true has no bearing on whether the first issue should be addressed. this is why we have so many problems beacause unfortunately rather than all of us trying to be better where we can we throw out the good old cliche of dont be so critical” the modern day version of political correctness that does not allow for the raising of legitimate concerns for fear that someone will be offended