Firstly, aries2756, Why are you ‘paseling up’ the whole yeshiva system?
It seems to me that you had a bad experience in your yeshiva days.
Kids nowadays all have someone to talk to if not an older mentor or friend, a hotline, a program, something.
In every yeshiva their is at least ONE RABBI that can be trusted.
I know from my yeshiva days there was always someone to talk to.
Now, whether hypocrisy of the Yeshiva, system, the yiddishkeit they are taught, is correct thats a different story.
Unfortunately, we are all hypocrites to some extent. We all sin.
When a father yells at his son not to talk during davening, and then turns around to discuss business with his friend, that is hypocritical, and that sends a more damaging message then non kosher cell phones and internet in my book.
but thanks 4 your concern