Oomis: “Suppose ALL those other people who are paying for these kids’ expenses suddenly decided they, too, wanted to do nothing all day but sit and learn? What if all the fathers decided collectively, “We paid our dues, we brought up our kids, now it is our turn to relax in the Beis Medrash and enjoy learning all day?””
Had to repeat this, as I know of at least one family member who has done this (as soon as the children were out of the house), and Bezras Hashem, I should be so lucky as well (besides my current sedorim).
See my comment in the other “learning” thread to SJS about high school children not being able to handle the truth.