Actually I find in general not always but very often that the homes where the husband didnt go to Kollel but he is a frum man who is Koveia itim and she is a a frum woman with good hashkafos tend to have better more adjusted Torahdig families.
I find that as long as daddy is in Kollel he is all holy and the house is Torahdig but then once he leaves he drops in Ruchnius like a stone in water. What do you think that does to the family? They all drop with him. A non Kollel family doesnt have this phenomenon.