Sof Davar we cannot pin it on one inyan, but for SURE there is a greater chance for a problem when BOTH parents are not actively involved in their kids’ upbringing, oblivious to the goings-on in his household, and the mom is at work to support them all. A babysitter is not a substitute for parenting. Unless she is their loving Bubby (who already raised HER kids), she is not the person closest to them, who has an achrayus al pi Hashem to raise them.
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