SJS what exactly is wrong being careful at the pool? It is not necessary to wear a bikini, it is not necessary to splat yourself out on a lounge chair like a squashed bug, it is not necessary to let everything hang out so to speak. One doesn’t have to cover up in a bourka either there is some common sense that can be applied and little children boys and girls do have to go with their mommies. It is ok to put on a towel to cover up certain areas. it is fine to cross your legs and be careful what you are showing, you just have to use common sense.
SJS, some women feel perfectly comfortable nursing a baby in front of other women and some women wouldn’t dream of it. Then again some women are very uncomfortable when other women just go right ahead and nurse their babies right in front of them. It takes a bit of common sense in these situations as well.