shimmel better that they go to therapy and take care of their problems than pretend e/th is perfect and continue on with REAl problems that can many times come into married life and result in difficult shalom bayis. Why? because they cant put their pride and worries aside. We have to do what’s right. No one has to advertise the fact that they went for therapy, but not to go because worries of shidduchim? they’re doing more damage to themselves in the long term. (obviously if it’s a case that needs therapy) and for all those that are worried aobut shidduchim, i know a VERY special girl who a few yrs ago did go for therapy, and she is engaged to a VERY good boy.
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