I agree with Bodek, and I would also point out that being lonely and WANTING to be married when one is 18, is not the same as saying that someone two years older should feel a sense of hopelessness when people wish her, “Im Yirtzeh Hashem by you,” when at a simcha. That’s just very sad to me. She has her whole life ahead of her at twenty. She is NOT over the hill, and anyone making her feel that way, is doing a very big injustice to her, IMO.
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