I work in an office where there is a non-frum man working. He mentioned TO the married ladies: “most of these married ladies who wear wigs, attract men much more then the single girls do.”
We do not need to wear shmatas, or paruuks or scarves on our heads. The whole perpose of a sheitel is to tell the difference between a married and single girl, so that doesn’t mean wear something that will make you uncomftorable.
EVERYONE CAN USE THEIR OWN JUDGEMENT WHAT IS CONSIDERED RIGHT OR WRONG!!