“Part of the tuition problem is that scholarship committees don’t look at whats causing the massive expenses, just that they are there.”
SJS, this comment really hit home! Some people buy/renovate homes they can barely afford, then they show the scholarship committees their mortgage/loan bills and pay minimal tuition. And the rest of us pay for their warped priorities.
BTW, I have the same plans for my sons’ Bar Mitzvah celebrations, BE”H!