Helpful
Don’t put words in my mouth.
All I said is that a public ceremony can be done with Tznius.
But I do admit it is a good debating tactic, to pretend I said something and try to make me defend it.
Helpful said:
you’re supposed to be more tznius by a chasuna than a bas mitzva.
This is not true. After all, we just had a number of posts regarding how Rav Moshe held that Bas Mitzvos should not be held in public, if they are held at all. A Chassuna, though it should be with “Tznius”, should be public.