GAW, I do all those things because I have to, not want to. Do you think I like coming home exhausted and scrubbing toilets? I think most people use this as an excuse. People are a lot more capable than we give them credit for and they live up to our expectations.
I can’t understand the philosophy of a husband saying “No sorry I can’t help with MY family responsibilities because I need some time to learn” but still think a Yeshiva education is important. Is it only important when someone else foots the bill?
says who, then you are saying you value neighborhood over tuition. And cleaning help over tuition.