3 issues:
I strongly disagree with the implication that someone who is poor should be kicked out of the city if he can’t afford tuition. Since when is it a midda of Yidden to throw people out of town if he is poor?? Even if there is cheaper places to live.
As far as cleaning help, I would agree it is unnecessary IF the mother isn’t working. To compare to our bubbe’s who didn’t have cleaning help, it is because out Bubbe’s stayed at home (B”H).
I don’t even believe there is a right to force a mother to work. The tradition of Jewish mothers, with the support of Torah sources, is for them to stay at home. (Kollel wives notwithstanding.)