oomis1105, Just as 1+1=2 regardless of what anyone feels about it, not tznius=pritzus and someone regularly not tzniusdik = a prutza. And having uncovered elbows and up or knees and up — even “a couple of inches too short” — is pritzusdik. Having that uncovered elbow or knee is “utterly contrary to the spirit and letter of the Torah” and the description of an immoral person and prutza. Just like 1+1=2.
And I agree with you that tochocho should be given in private not public. (At least the first time.)