I think we can all agree that men have strong ta’avos and the nisyonos that go along with it. OK. That much is clear.
Can men understand that women also have nisyonos? A woman may feel prettier wearing a shorter skirt or fitted shirt than wearing something else. So just like men have to work on their nisyonos in life, women have to work on theirs.
Bottom line is, after 120, a woman will have to answer for her transgressions, and a man will have to answer for his. Blaming the woman for the man’s weakness really doesn’t get anyone anywhere.