notarabbi, I’ve never learnt that gemora. I cannot imagine that is the meaning though. Its the girls fault that she was at home and the boy couldn’t control himself? So beauty is now a sin? Was she flaunting it in some way?
I’m going to look up that gemora because that seems like it doesn’t fit with Judaism.
And my step-father was told he is allowed to drive on Shabbos – he is a doctor and has to go to the hospital. His psak was from a charedi mainstream Rabbi, lest anyone think this is a MO psak.