We do have women who partake in this mitzvah. These days, you don’t have to seek prutzahs- they are just there wherever you turn, wherever you go. I do not look inappropriately; when the problem presents itself, I nonchalantly hand a card, and for this, there is no halachic problem (Reb Moshe, I believe, holds that instead of shaking a woman’s hand professionally, it is preferable to hand a business card.) Change is a different story than a 3*5 index card, which is bigger than most business cards. With change, you are depositing coins into the hand of someone of the opposite gender, which is ossur, but with handing a card to someone, they are simply grabbing the other end of it, otherwise, Reb Moshe wouldn’t have suggested men hand females business cards in lieu of handshaking- no issur involved. This is somethign I do when I am in Manhattan or on the trains; I don;t go out and do this for the sake of it. I try to the best of my ability to avoid makomei tumah v’pritzus, but there is not always the option of controlling who goes on the tain, etc. I always try to sit as far away from such individuals as soon as possible. Tznius is an aspect of morality, and therefore, goyim too have to be tzniusdik. R’ Yitzchok Dubovick, a gaon in inyonei sheva mitzvos, and the Lubavitcher Rebbe, who was perhaps the leading gadol in these inyonim, held this way, and I have upon whom to rely in this (see the sicha of the Rebbe from Shavuos 5747 on Bnei Noach and Nezirus).
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