Here is another one: How about the way women, especially girls, just push you out of their way? There is no “heter” to speak down to a waiter at a wedding or anywhere else. Adarabah, you have to make a kidush hashem at every opportunity and show that we as yiddin are respectful, courteous, gracious, considerate and appreciative of others.
I was just at 2 wedding in E”Y and was absolutely shocked that there was no consideration or derech eretz and these young girls just pushed and shoved with even an excuse me or “slicha”. It was ridiculous bordering on obnoxious.