Wolf,
It was Charlie and Oomis who felt that non-Jews deserve preference with which I strongly disagree and apparently you too disagree.
As far as being considered an apikorus, perhaps you should consider rethinking how you present your ideas. Being considered an apikorus is no great banner to wave.
It also reminds me of the story about this old lady in Florid who hears on the radio about someone driving against traffic in the vicinity where her husband is supposed to be. SShe calls her husband and says, Irv, be careful there is a meshuggener driving the wrong way in traffic. He answers her, what do you mean “A” meshuggener, I see hundreds of people driving the wrong way in traffic.
At some point you have to realize that it is not may not be the hundreds who are the wrong way in traffic.