Moq, therein lies the catch-22. A young bochur or girl who needs therapy prior to marriage is between a rock and a hard place. They can either get the needed therapy – and hence ruin their shidduch prospects (as at that point they cant lie about him/her not getting therapy). OR they can forgo the therapy, and cross their fingers and hope the marriage works out for the best. Many if not most choose the latter, rather than ruin their shidduch prospects.
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