Its the Boy & the Girls fault.
If you are ready to get married and have kids you should be able to compromise and problem solve.
Girl – you dont destroy (and just “pull out” out of a marriage) because you have a disagreement WORK IT OUT, compromise!
Boy – is it worth it for your wife to be miserable so that you can learn for a couple more hours a day? What is that learning worth?
Bottom line is Marriage is about COMPROMISE, there is no place for selfishness in a marriage you have to just be constantly thinking about the other person. No one promised you life would turn out a certain way, and there are no guarantees.