Reply To: Who's the victim? Who's the villain?

I really don’t understand you people. Doesn’t a word mean anything? Furthermore, if a guy wanted to learn a certain # of years or for life, that’s something that’s very important to him, considering that he’s a serious learner and its a MAJOR life decision, not something minor where you can see oh just grow up and forget about what you want. Yes marriage is about compromise but not at the expense of completely throwing away everything that’s important to you!!!! If he gives in what type of marriage will they have? He will likely be utterly miserable and resentful for the rest of his life!!