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mw13, attractiveness IS something important in a spouse. The point is what one considers attractive. Is it her chein? Is it her smile? Is it her eyes? Is it the way her eyes laugh when she is telling a joke? Or is it makeup, the newest hairstyle, hat or sheitel? Is it the slimmest she could possibly be, or the latest fashion or color of the week? Or is it the way she holds her head high when she walks into a room, or the way she always smiles when she looks at her children? Is it her posture and self confidence is it her generosity and gentle ways? What makes her beautiful? What makes him handsome? Is it that special gleam in his eyes when he bentches his children before Shabbos?