We all have our “items” – for some people its height, for others its hair color (like no redheads!)
I think its fair to have a few specifics but not fair to say “I won’t date a woman who weighs more than 130 lbs soaking wet, has brown hair, has any freckles, is taller than 5’4″, non-athletic build, bunions, large knuckles, large ears, pointy nose, removed tonsils and has a unibrow (whether or not she waxes).” There comes a point where its just ridiculous.