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September 28, 2010 6:38 pm at 6:38 pm
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popa_bar_abba
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The shidduchim crisis isn’t man-made, it’s real. But the basis for the crisis is man-made, and woman-made. The girls and boys who get engaged “on-time” are the ones who are reasonable and aren’t looking for a spouse with a shopping list of demands. The majority of our children do get married without major problems. Those who end up falling into the “crisis” are the ones who are etched in stone demanders of perfection.
This assertion is so absurd, I don’t think anyone will even find it hurtful.
If you’d said “some”, or even “many”, there could be a reasonable discussion on the merits.