BP Totty,
I don’t agree that the boy should only nod his head. There’s no reason that there cannot be a normal conversation flowing if the two click. Unless one of them has a social issues problem or is simply shy, which in that case he/she needs more time to open up.
My friend’s son was “coached” on the 15 minute drive from his house to his beshow on what to say and what to ask.
Nu, s’faylt iem epes?