BP totty. You are talking from some little resentment in your heart because what you say isn’t true.
Yes, most chassidishe men don’t have college degrees and the likes, but they all learn the ins and outs of life. Not going to the movies, but yes simpler things like vacationing and treating their wives.
Only some very narrowminded men don’t know how to open their eyes A BIT.
Or maybe your home was Very ULTRA frum.