I dont understand why every body is so worried about what everyone else will think. You have to do what will work for you. If you are both COMPLETELY sure after a week and a half go for it. If it takes you a year and a half take your time. There is nothing “main stream Yeshivish” about finding a life partner. It’s not something a Rav with a beard can force you into, and when they do it often backfires.
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