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You are right. We have many more problems today. None of which will be solved by MORE dates. I told you I know a couple who dated approx 30 times and a few years later are now divorced. Maybe they should have dated 60 times….
The reasons of higher divorce rates have little to do with dating and much more to do with peoples attitudes. We live in a disposable society and an instant society. If its not perfect “right away” we are just done with it. We discard it and look for something better.
People lack maturity and education about marriage. You are dating right? How many lectures on amrriage have you listened to? How many books have you read? I went to the trouble of educating myself so at least when I find the right one, Ill know it and Ill know how to have a good marriage and what to do when there’s a problem.