Shlomozalmen- while our definition of love is different than the goyim, we definitely have a concept of love in the Torah. If you fail to understand that, then please don’t get married until you seek help.
There’s a reason why children are born through love and intimate relationships and they just don’t grow on trees!
And that reason is because a couple has to have true love.
Ask any rav or mentor if you don’t trust me.