WIY
We arent discussing my personal story because there were so many more components that I didnt mention (but yes, had he be willing I wouldve gladly accepted a proposal)
Shlomo Zalman
If you dont agree with the “Yeshivish” dating method, why then have you elected yourself to educated the masses about this form of dating?
To all who think you dont need to Love your spouse on some level before you get married –
I would like to know how you think its ok to be intimitate with them the night of the wedding. “Well, its the night of the wedding, duh.” No! If you are going to completely give yourself to another person it cant be because “you share common goals and dreams” its not because you share “intellectual curiosities” etc etc… If you dont LOVE the person on every level then you have no right being with them. Maybe that love is a little premature maybe it isnt fully realized, but you sure as heck need the love.
*Ok, calm again*