Reply To: Shidduchim, What do girls look for in a boy? Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Shidduchim, What do girls look for in a boy? › Reply To: Shidduchim, What do girls look for in a boy? October 5, 2010 5:46 am at 5:46 am #700795 kapustaParticipant Middos, Middos, Middos. Someone who talks and looks and acts like a Jew should. Last but not least, someone who is machshiv Torah. (But if the rest fits, then he will likely be machshiv Torah anyway) *kapusta*