Nothing does more to destroy shalom bayis than taking your spuse for granted. Rubbing their nose in it, is that much worse. Rough zman? Relaxing during bein hazmanim? That’s wonderful, remember, she also had a rough “zman” that doesn’t come with a bein hazmanim (unless she is lucky enough to work for a yid who is closed chol hamoed) AND is busy preparing for yom tov, while you grap an extra hour of sleep to catch the 9am chodesh nissan special.
