of course shidduchim are confusing! there are so many factors that go into deciding who you will marry! this is not a little decision. it is a major life decision! you wanna make sure you get it right the first time IY”H.
like was mentioned before, the main thing to do is daven to H-Shem that He grant you clarity of thought.
if you have someone older than you who you are close with (and i don’t mean a friend going through shidduchim herself) like a teacher, mentor, mechanechet, whatever, ask them what they think.
btw, i just assumed you are a girl, if i’m wrong, substitute the female words for their male versions!