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What should someone say to this question:

She sounds very aidel is she very quiet(negative connotation)?

Describe how she looks (after telling the mother the girls very beautiful)— how do you describe how someone looks?(pretty, skinny, put together but that doesn’t tell the mother much!)

Is she bright? (after telling the mother what she’s doing and mentioning she was in the honors class)

Do you know the family? what are they like?(this is after repeating how warm, friendly and gracious they are.)

Then you have the wacky questions– Is she a homebody, independent, selfless etc?????

you really want to ask IS YOUR SON X Y AND Z… but you don’t want to ruin a shidduch!